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I didn’t gain a freshman 15, I gained a freshman 50.Then my dad died when I was 22 and I wasn’t interested in anything anymore. It wasn’t until I was 28 that I decided I wanted to date again, after I got back in touch with people from camp.And I’ve been contacted by men on BBW sites who ask me if I’m open to a feeding relationship, which I’m not.It means they want to be with somebody who likes to eat, who they can feed and would consider gaining a lot of weight. But I think there’s a fine line between someone who’s a fetishist and someone who’s not.Now I know that the skinny white girl is not the ideal to everyone.
Some jerk once IMed and asked, “Are there really guys out there who are attracted to you?Ultimately everybody’s looking to get to the next level, and for many men in New York, a larger woman is the bottom level, regardless of what she’s like.There’s a misconception that plus-size girls are insecure in their bodies.I’ve had really in-shape guys, bodybuilders even, contact me.I think they like the juxtaposition of hard and soft.
I’ve been seeing someone now who’s given me a newfound perspective.