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JW: It's not about "focusing on other girls" and in fact I would say almost the opposite - you shouldn't focus on ANY girls! ("I don't care if you don't come hang, I'm going to have a bunch of fun anyway, and you're going to miss out on it.") If that all fails, smoke some weed and watch Swingers. So apparently there is some gigantic error I'm committing here. Like I can almost guarantee that the people that have girlfriends now did not put in much work.It's about not fixating on one specific girl and getting all super worked up about making things happen w/ her. And please don't take this as I'm fixated on this girl. The girl found something about them attractive enough that they made it easy by having to have him.If this is the only date this month, of course you will make a big deal of it.To be honest I think most of what you have actually done so far is fine, yet youve devoted like 20 posts of panic to it. If not harassing girls to hang out makes them forget about you, or if they have no desire to text you of their own volition, then your passivity/aggressiveness isnt the problem, its simply you arent making enough of an impression on them. I think your biggest problem is anytime ANYTHING negative happens you freak out.The whole point is that you focus on improving yourself and less on what you think she wants, less on what you think will get her.J, Let's see here: May 25: Went out on a date with a girl May 26: We ended up texting about an inside joke from our date May 27: briefly texted Friday.Go hang out with her and sister if you are stressing about not seeing her so much.

J: OK, what I mean by stop caring so much, is to stop making such a big deal of everything.Women like the excitement and anticipation of the thrill of the chase too. They texted the guy or found a way to meet up with the guy. "Like I can almost guarantee that the people that have girlfriends now did not put in much work.I suspect you are jumping straight from a hint to initial interest/attraction straight to "zomg let's be super srs bf/gf" and getting out of sync w/ where the girls are, and that is largely why it's never working out for you. The girl found something about them attractive enough that they made it easy by having to have him.So apparently there is some gigantic error I'm committing here. Like I can almost guarantee that the people that have girlfriends now did not put in much work.And please don't take this as I'm fixated on this girl. The girl found something about them attractive enough that they made it easy by having to have him.

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May 28-30: We didn't text from Friday to now as we were both away for the Memorial Day holiday and had plans that were outside our city.