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Studies have shown that female narcissists tend to wear more make-up and show more cleavage than women who score lower on narcissism, whereas male narcissists spend more time building up their muscle mass.
In the very short term, narcissists can even seem more well-adjusted, entertaining and generally nicer.
The problem with the nice-guys-finish-last stereotype, aside from going against the grain of years of scientific evidence, is that it may compromise the possibility of forming meaningful relationships.
Perpetuating this myth not only creates unhelpful expectations about how we should behave, but trying to live up to the myth can sometimes damage relationships.
This idea is so widespread that some people are even making money off the back of it, selling self-help books and teaching men how to pick up women by insulting them – a practice known as “negging”.
Recently, an article published by Broadly claimed, “Everyone knows [bad boys] … Thanks to a recent study, this is now scientifically verifiable.” The research it refers to is a study published earlier this year, which suggested that some men smoke and drink because this makes them more attractive short-term partners.
Otile and Vera have been making headlines since they started spending some quality time together.
Let’s take a look at some reliable scientific evidence.
In one version, the man was nice – he was in touch with his feelings, caring and kind.
In another, he was a self-described “real man” who was insensitive and unkind. So which contestant did participants think Susan should date and who did they prefer to date themselves?
Or they may simply have bought into myths of dating and behave accordingly.
But, for the most part, the evidence suggests that both women and men prefer nice partners and are turned off by jerks.
In the end, the idea that women want to date bad boys really just reinforces the misogynist’s idea of deceitful women and earnest “nice” men baffled by their lack of dating success.