Dating services for herpes victims
Just my opinion....I respect each woman who has shared that with me first and let me make that decision on my end.....
I don't think I could chance being sexual with someone who has any kind of disease.
With treatment, your occurance of outbreaks can be limited significantly or eliminated altogether.
It's quite possible to engage in sexual activity with someone infected with genital herpes and never contract it yourself. That seems way too high but I'd agree it's probably more prevalent than we'd expect. I was seeing a woman and she informed me that she had it. I appreciated her honesty and all but that killed it for me.
I would be curious as to how they got it, then the situation may be different but still, I have a feeling I couldn't.
Yes they were brave enough to tell me and I would thank them that they did, but I would most likely be honest and say nothing would happen because of it. I know THREE PEOPLE who got genitlal herpes by their selfish prick-of-a-person partner who never gave them the chance to DECIDE how they would safeguard themselves from it.
To say her life is over or who'd want her because she has the genital equivilent of a coldsore seems a bit melodramatic. Perhaps if I was somehow 0 certain that I'd end up marrying her at some point I would have gone that extra mile but casually dating someone isn't reason enough for me unfortunately.dated a lady for a while that was afraid she had picked up the virus from a former partner. enough cannot be said for the need to be careful with yourself and your partners. If the worst happens, then you're the one having to explain to your partner what you have, what the risks are, etc., etc.One more thing, up to 40% of those who have gential herpes (either h SV-1 or 2) do not know they even have it.So it isn't always a case of withholding information from a partner. Maybe if we all would just take the time to talk and go slow enough to let our minds rule and not our genitals....we could control more of this.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
It is a disease like many others and not one that if you touch a doorknob that a person with herpes touched that you will get it...gods sake!!!!