Dating lesbian planet
Often, both members of a couple feel alone and mistreated, trapped in their own version of events, rather than really seeing and hearing each other.
Someone wise said, “Assumptions make an ASS of you and me.” They were right!
Yeah, we know you were waiting for this one – but we listed it last because it’s almost always just a side effect of everything else we talked about above!
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You could have a magical, heartfelt connection and amazing chemistry. Check out our book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love for more info on how to avoid this and other common lesbian relationship problems, or take the ground-breaking online course The 12-Week Roadmap To Conscious Lesbian Dating and lasting Love. Who needs any of that when you’re in a good relationship, right? Sacrificing yourself or changing your life for your girlfriend creates all kinds of lesbian relationship problems.
Women are socialized to put other peoples’ needs first. No two people can share everything, and in fact, the relationship will be richer and more exciting if you honor your different wants and needs, nurture your separate lives and selves, and then come back together again for intimate time.
For those who don’t, the underlying cause is usually unhealthy emotional dynamics (see problems #2, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 7, above.) Now, if you never really had sparks, you may not be sexually compatible.
But if you had a strong sexual connection initially, sexual problems are almost always caused by what’s happening If sex is important to you, make sure you find a partner with whom you’re sexually compatible and have strong chemistry.
And if she can’t meet you as an equal, the relationship won’t be a happy one.