Ask guy your dating your boyfriend
It would make him happier knowing he pleased you, and in all probability, he may work harder to impress you all over again, the next time around.
On the other hand, if you never appreciate anything he does, he may stop trying to please you because he’d assume that it just doesn’t matter what he does because you don’t seem to care.
As a girl, I would also return any money I had to borrow from my partner as soon as possible.
I am not entertaining the idea of having a boyfriend now, but if I was and my boyfriend was not giving me money I would ask for it.
Real love is kind so it should give, it is not like you are asking for his hand in marriage on the first date.
It’s just that ladies have become so bare-faced, such that their requests sometimes portray lack of love.
I’m jobless now, which he is aware of, but he hasn’t made any effort to at least support me.
I really need financial help, but I don’t have the courage to ask because he has never given me the chance to.
Sometimes guys treat me to dinner and all but rarely, I prefer paying for myself and if someone buys anything I tend to feel as though I owe them! I am being honest though, I could not date someone for just their money. I probably would not like it, it’s nice to be treated but it’s not a deal breaker if they do not for as long as they can support themselves and do not have to ask me for anything.Every now and then, all of us like hearing something sweet and complimenting. After all, at the beginning of a relationship, a guy tries pretty hard to impress a girl.And once you start dating him, the guy would try to show you how worthy he is of you by sweet talking and wooing you every day.However, as in my case, I feel a man should know his place as a provider in the early stages of the relationship.Something else, again, if I was convinced with the idea of having a boyfriend, I would not let him pay for meals, flights or any of my bills, I would feel uncomfortable about it, but of course, again, I would not mind much if he took care of the bills voluntarily because I see this connection as strong and very necessary.
How can I make him give me money, or should I break up with him because he is stingy?